25 Challenges for Students and Their Parents

The students and parents pass through different challenges and encounter many problems with coping with the rising issues in a positive way. Students’ academic performance drops and parents don’t try to understand the root causes for this.

Some of the challenges are:

  

1. Lack of Amity  

      Students prefer their peer group because of lack of friendship at both ends.

2. Incompatibility
Students don’t feel compatibility with their parents and vice versa parents also think that they are incompatible to their kids.

3. Distrust
Students trust their friends instead of their parents. Parents also distrust their kids.

4. Absence of Unconditional Positive Regard
Parents don’t accept their child’s values.

5. High Expectations
Both parents and students have unreal demands from each other.

6. Preferences
Familial values are gradually changing and both students and parents don’t regard each other. Both have changed their preferences.

7. Discrimination
Parents’ discriminatory attitude leaves students dejected and alone. The discrimination hampers the well-being of an individual and hence hampers the productive personality growth.

8. Hostility
The feeling of hostility fosters in students and parents. Both of them perceive each other as their enemy.

9. Criticism
Criticism shatters the overall personality into bits and pieces and then it leads to anti-social personality traits in students.

10. Empathy
Students feel un-empathic towards their parents as they perceive them as their enemy and parents also do not handle the situation with care.

11. Discomfort
Students enjoy the company of their friends and they tend to spend more time with friends and feel discomfort at their homes in the presence of their parents.

12. Alienation
Parents and students, both feel alien to each other when they are together.

13. Distorted Thoughts
Students feel dis-regarded and their vision towards life changes and they perceive life as a useless thing.

14. Anti- Social Group
Students affiliate themselves with anti-social groups and take pride in violating laws.

15. Reckless Behavior
Ignorance from parents will lead to trigger recklessness in their children.

16. Disobedience
Ignorance leads to disobedience and these children are also disobedient to their teachers.

17. Lack of Respect/Regard to Others
Parents’ negligence contributes in making their children irresponsible and insensitive towards others. They don’t regard and care for others.
 
18. Drug Addiction
Aloof children feel free by indulging in drug addiction.

19. Juvenile Delinquency
An ignored child becomes juvenile delinquent.

20. Involvement in Severe Crimes
Disregarded child feels superior by indulging in severe crimes.

21. Parents Disown their Children
Parents disown their children when they express behavior problems.

22. Parents Lack Responsibility
Parents don’t find time for their children to lead them in a right direction.

23. Improvised Parenting Styles
Parents lack the knowledge of parenthood.

24. Parents Lack Supervision
Lack of parental supervision leaves children on the hem of destruction.

25. Isolation
Both parents and students feel isolated in times of need.

Aforementioned challenges seek consideration from parents and students. Parents need to revise their parenting styles and try to fill the lacuna's. At the other end, students must cope with stress in a positive way and try to value their family and parents.

A game to help students pay the right bill

In the last huge financial downturn, back when Tim Ranzetta was in the understudy credit examination and counseling business and working with schools, borrowers regularly discovered their approach to him, as well. There would be tears. Also, he would get off the telephone with a similar dissatisfaction each time over how little the general population who utilize them think about understudy advances.

Beginning this week, he has another instrument in what has turned into a yearlong battle to fill that hole: a free, intuitive, electronic diversion called Payback. In playing, understudies see running aggregates of their obligation however can likewise track scholastic concentration, the associations they're making that could be valuable later and their general bliss — essential factors in really completing school and graduating with a vocation that can enable them to reimburse their obligation.  

The actual reality space of students

On the off chance that you've played that you-are-there neediness reenactment amusement called Spent, the instinctive organization of Payback will be natural since a similar firm, McKinney, planned both. Payback walks players through a progression of choices, from which school to take care of when and how to acknowledge paid function to whether to join (and pay for) a society or sorority.  

·   In a perfect instructive world, experiential recreations like this would be central components of a monetary proficiency ace class that each secondary school understudy would take. I've regularly envisioned it as a semester-long investigation of the puzzling financing framework that exposed American youngsters must explore to pay for costly schools and colleges. "Payback" is one conceivable name for such a course, but a hopeful one. "Security" may be a more fitting one, or "Judiciousness," in any event.  

Story of the payback application

Mr. Ranzetta adapted the framework as an adolescent. The fifth of six kids, he was so resolved to get to school that he was at that point planning for it as a secondary school understudy. (I repeated his written by hand spending plan, which despite everything he has, in a 2015 section.) After effective stretches in the paper-destroying and official remuneration ventures, Mr. Ranzetta swung to understudy credit counseling when his more established kin began sending their kids to school and hurled their hands in perplexity and misery when endeavoring to get to pay for it.

His telephone number was on his organization site, and each time a sad call came in, he asked what may have shielded the issues from occurring in any case. Unavoidably, it came down to individuals wishing they'd known toward the starting how huge their advance installment would have been concerning their month to month salary. Payback, and the money related proficiency work Mr. Ranzetta has been improving the situation years (which he pays for out of his investment funds) is his endeavor to open understudies' eyes. When he induced McKinney to help him, he started working with Jenny Nicholson, one of the makers of Spent. Her work on that venture was educated by her youth, some portion of which she spent in Tennessee without running water or power. When she entered the University of California, San Diego, she was the primary individual in her family to set off for college. No one revealed to her that when the understudy credit checks lands, it can prompt bogus sentiments of being flush with money, given that a piece of the cash might be required for a considerable length of time of everyday costs. "I was wealthier, in all honesty, than I'd at any point been a major part of my life," she said.

With the correct arranging, in any case, instructors ought to have the capacity to avoid uncovering excessively before understudies' companions. Understudies may well have inquiries for the instructor after class, and Mr. Ranzetta trusts they bring the inquiries home, as well. "My expectation is this is the start of an extraordinary dialog," he said.

There is a hazard that any such diversion, with its victors and washouts, may bring about understudies not going to school or not getting enough to do as such effectively. Be that as it may, Ms. Nicholson said she trusted that the components of fun and associations heated into the amusement would have a completely extraordinary impact. "I'll never get every one of the points of interest right, and there is continually going to be somebody who inquires as to whether we contemplated either or living in a cardboard box to spare cash," she said. "In any case, I trust everybody who plays will comprehend the idea that you don't need to surrender everything to succeed."